I’m going to share something private with you, and I think this is the “why” behind this blog – to be real and to be open.
So here it goes.
I love sex and I love my husband.
Trying to raise two kids, having to work all day at a demanding job, while also taking care household matters… all that keeps me busy that I put sex at the end of my “to do” list.
While I felt I didn’t have the time to do anything about it, I could feel that this was affecting my relationship somehow, and so I decided I had to step up to the plate.
I told myself I had to to change the way I was thinking and feeling about things I had “to do” and how that kept me from some of the things I should never forget to do – one of which was to never forget that the relationship with my husband needs attention too.
I knew that if you don’t put your mind and energy into something, it will be very difficult to improve on any situation.
So, the other day I decided it was time for a change and I was going to put my relationship first – so I did something different.
I started my day by saying YES to having morning sex – I put any excuse aside and took advantage of a private moment with my husband and what happened was…. AMAZING.
Besides spending a nice sexy time together at the start of the morning, an amazing day followed.
Somehow having sex in the morning made us more tolerant and compassionate towards each other, and the day flew by with smiles, love and nice vibes.
So, yes, I know this may sound crazy for anyone feeling “too busy” with their “to-dos”, but if you’re feeling a “disconnect” with your partner – try this.
Have a nice private moment with him early in the morning and pay attention to how you (and he) feel for the rest of the day. It might just be the “spark” or “spice” you’re looking for.
Do it and please let me know how it works for you. It’s been working great for me! 🙂